Why You Need To Believe In Order To Achieve

believe in yourself

If you don’t believe in yourself, why should anyone else?

There’s only one thing that stands between you and your goals. This one thing is either holding you back or propelling you towards them. It’s the one thing that separate’s the average from the greats and it’s the one thing you need, if you ever want to get ahead.

I’m talking about belief.

I recently quit my job to follow my passions. One being writing and the other, my business, which aims to connect travellers. I wrote a post about the fear I had when taking that risk and how worth while it’s been so far. After writing that, post I’ve received a fair few emails from people telling me about how they’re planning to quit there job or how they’ve already done it.

The Email That Made It Worth It

In particular, I recently received this email:

I’ve been a subscriber of yours for a while. I’m also a new blogger just getting some positive momentum in my site’s growth! 

I have to tell you something…

You inspired me to get serious about this shit!

I subscribed to your blog a long time ago, very likely on a Facebook thread, and then I would have an email EVERY DAY that you posted something new. They all had featured images, they all were well written, and I was astonished that you “had the time” to write everyday.

Truth be told…

I thought you had to be some old retired guy! 

So one day I finally thought “Alright I need to start reading these posts. I need to figure out how he’s writing so much content!”

Then I come to your home page, and you look like you’re in your mid-twenties!

Then you wrote a post about quitting your job…

I was like shit, he’s GOT to be just as busy as me, and he’s pumping out posts. I’m being an excuse maker.

So I took a few hours, and I got serious about my blog. I write a bit for work everyday, so I decided that right now, as opposed to writing daily, I’m just going to work on my website in some way every day. 

So now, I wake up at 5am, coffee at the computer working on the website, workout, work stuff, and off to my real job. I get home, hang with my kid and wife for a bit, and then about 7:30 or 8:00 I hammer on some project (infographic, blog course that I’m taking, my about me page, a post, etc etc) then I’m in bed reading by 9:30pm, and I do it all again the next day!

That structure has got me a few first page rankings on google, about to be featured on a few big (relative to me) websites, I had a back and forth with a journalist for cosmo and HOPE I’m quoted there soon, and now I’m also focusing on growing my email list.

That structure was born out of your daily postings!! So I wanted to drop you a line and say thank you 🙂

So if I may ask, how long have you been blogging?

The ‘Believe’ Switch

Apart from boosting my own self-esteem and giving me the motivation I need to work past my current challenge of pushing through a serious burnout, I found it amazing that this guy had found the courage to believe in himself and relentlessly chase his goals.

I also noticed a pattern in how it happened for him and how it happened for me. It’s a switch. It doesn’t happen over a long period of time, where you slowly develop belief for your goals. It happens almost instantly and it takes just one moment for the switch to turn on.

For him, it was when he read my posts.

For me, it’s been a couple of events. One was the next morning after a huge night out when I’d just had enough of being a loser. The other was when I went into work, after the Christmas Break, and quit after an hour because it wasn’t challenging in any way and I believed in my goals enough to take that leap.

What Do YOU Want?

But here’s the trick. You will never develop belief if you’re chasing anything less than what you want.

In order to reach your goals, they have to actually be your goals. Not what you think you’re capable of or what you think you should do or even what someone else wants from you.

It has to be yours. Otherwise you’ll quit before you reach the end.

If you’re having trouble developing belief maybe it’s time you sit down with your goals and reassess whether your why is strong enough to see out the journey. 9 times out of 10 the issue is in the end goal. If the goal was right, you’d have no issue with seeing through the challenges and seeing out the process.

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2 comments

  1. Hi Jesse,
    One of my favorite quotes “if it were easy, everyone would do it.” We often forget how hard life can be. I like your idea of a vision board. The fact that your individual life’s big picture is always there right in front of you is a good idea. What concerns me is your forgetting about the journey. Savoring the taste of your meal is just as important as cooking it. Also, the goals are all about you. Where is your moral obligation to leave this planet a little better than you found it? Moreover, I don’t see any long-term future goals posted. What happens when you get to where you’re going? Then what? Do you think the path just ends?
    Don’t get me wrong – I like your idea of the big picture. However, I prefer using a 5 X 8 card to create a weekly list instead. Although I use a similar list-type concept, short-term goals work better for me. At the bottom of each week’s card, I list one primary goal – something to work towards over the next 6-8 months. Then I have a social action-type objective – that is, how can I make a difference in my world? Last, I’ll list one future goal – how can I take what I’ve learned from my achievements to the next level? Not always will all three necessarily be mutually exclusive. Like you, my card is my “corkboard.” Renee
    reimaginesuccessandfailure.wordpress.com/

    • Exactly, but this is why it’s so important that you state exactly what you want when setting your goal. If you were to say you want ‘financial freedom’, for example. Well, you’re never really going to reach it because at what point do you consider reaching financial freedom. Where as if you say you want $1,000,000 by 03/12/2017 then you know exactly when you’ve achieved that.

      I like the idea of cards!
      Thank you for the response.

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